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Family Law Court Appearances

 

There are several steps in preparing for any court appearance:

File Necessary Forms on Time
Prepare to Speak to the Judge in Court
Try to Negotiate or Mediate an Agreement
Arrange Child Care
Arrange Interpreter if Needed
Select Appropriate Attire
Plan Timely Arrival at Court

Hallway in William R. Ridgeway Family Relations Court

File Necessary Forms on Time

Be sure to meet all deadlines for filing any documents needed for your court date. Check with the Self Help Center or read the Codes and Rules in the law library if you are not sure what to file with the Court and when. Be aware that all facts and evidence that you wish the judge to consider must be provided to the other party and the Court before the hearing in the form of a written declaration sworn to under penalty of perjury. In addition to your declaration, you may use the declarations of other adults. 

Prepare to Speak to the Judge in Court

You need to organize your thoughts about the issues to be handled on your court date. Think about what you want to say. Make some notes to help you remember the main points. Gather documents that may help you remember things that are important. You should be prepared to tell the judge what the issues are, what solution you think is best, and why. Be sure to focus on the issues that are the reason your court date was scheduled. The judge cannot address issues that are not identified in the original paperwork filed to request the hearing. If you have other problems to resolve, you can schedule a separate hearing for that purpose.

Try to Negotiate an Agreement

Contact the other party prior to your court date to try to resolve the issues, unless there is a Restraining Order between you and the other party. You may be asked to negotiate outside the courtroom before your hearing if you have not done so prior to arrival. Depending on when your hearing is scheduled, you may be given the option of working with a volunteer mediator who can assist you and the other party in reaching an agreement. The hearing will go forward if an agreement is not reached in mediation.

If you need help resolving custody and visitation issues, the court has a special mediation program called Family Court Services. This mediation program helps parents reach custody and visitation agreements that respond to the special circumstances of each case. If an agreement is reached in mediation, the mediator will assist you in preparing the agreement and submitting it to the Court for approval. If there are no other issues to be decided, reaching an agreement on custody and visitation will result in your court date being dropped. If an agreement cannot be worked out in mediation, Family Court Services will recommend to the judge a plan that serves the child’s best interests. All parents are required to participate in mediation prior to their first court appearance.

Arrange Child Care

Make child care arrangements for your minor children. Children are not permitted in the courtroom. If you must bring your children with you to court, there may be space available in the Children’s Playroom for children ages 1-12 years. There is no charge for the Playroom while you conduct your business at the courthouse, but the Playroom may be full, so it is smart to bring someone with you to watch your children if you must bring them to court.

Arrange Interpreter if Needed

If you require the assistance of an interpreter, you will need to secure an interpreter before your hearing. You may use an adult friend or relative to interpret for you, but children of the parties should not be used as interpreters even if they are adults. Also, parties are not permitted to share a single interpreter. American Sign Language interpreters are available for all hearings at no charge through the Court Interpreter’s Office. Interpreters for other languages are offered without charge only for Domestic Violence and Contempt hearings. Arrangements for court interpreters should be made 1-2 weeks in advance by calling the Court Interpreter’s Office at 916-874-8455.

Select Appropriate Attire

Plan to dress for your court date as if going to a job interview in a business office. Suits or slacks and long-sleeved shirts are best for men. Pant or skirt outfits and dresses are appropriate for women. If you are coming from or going to work, your uniform or work clothes are fine. Make sure that you have made an effort to be neat, clean, and well groomed. Try to present the best side of yourself. After all, this is a place of business and you are going to be meeting the Judge about something important to you.

Plan Timely Arrival at Court

Arrange to be in court on time. It is very important to be on time for all scheduled court dates. Allow extra time due to possible traffic congestion. If you are late, your case could be removed from the court calendar, postponed, or the judge could rule against you without you being heard at all. If you are delayed or unable to attend your hearing due to a car breakdown, serious illness, or other emergency, contact the court support clerk on or before your hearing time by calling the Family Relations Courthouse main number and following the prompts to reach the courtroom or support clerk.